Hello! Thank you for being supportive and understanding with him. The world needs more people like you!
We like them mostly because its something you’re not supposed to do. Getting out of diapers and not wetting or messing yourself is on of the first major milestones in life. To transgress that milestone or “rule” if you will, can be extremely liberating.
It gives me a comforting feeling as well. In a sexual mindset, myself and Ms find it very “naughty” for lack of a better word.
Seeing a girl in a diaper is also a turn on for me because its something she’s not supposed to be doing… In addition, It takes a very large amount of trust for someone to be comfortable enough to do it in the presents of another.
Ms likes wearing them because when she does I take care of her and she obviously feels very vulnerable in that moment. She also likes them because its “naughty”, secretive, and “comfy”. Plus she says she feels cute in them.
If you haven’t already tried it for yourself do ittttttt! You will never know the feeling unless you try it. Ask him what he would want you to do and if he’s nervous, reassure him there are no consequences of the conversation. Tell him you want to learn more and experiment with him. Take your time, find what you like about it and be honest. :) Im 99% DL and had no idea how much I like being diapered and taken care of until Ms took control and told me what we were going to do. When your comfortable enough, try giving that a try.
The ABDL Community is a great thing and there are plenty of websites that show it. Look into a few for Ideas. Even the ABDL Diaper Sites have good information.
Good luck! Let us know how things go. Were interested in the rest of the story! :)
P.s. Diapers are not nearly as comfortable when its hot out :P